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Let there be at least someone nearby or an active search
Often, in order to feel happy, a person wants to have someone nearby, a person with whom the person will feel better than alone. And naturally, coming to this thought, he decides that it’s time to start looking for a suitable man or woman.
At the same time, the desire to end your loneliness begins to grow. People often begin to explain to themselves how good they will be in a relationship. But at the same time, the main goal is to escape from one’s own loneliness. After all, a person feels bad in such a state. And this greatly influences who people choose.
In such a situation, people often begin to lower their selection criteria. The desire to escape loneliness is so great that people prefer to close their eyes to some characteristics of the person they choose. At the same time, expectations from this person do not decrease. Indeed, in such a situation, a person believes that it is the other person who will make him happy.
As a rule, such relationships begin to bring problems to the person after some time, the main one of which will be dissatisfaction. After all, the person who is next to him does not make him happy, the relationship does not bring the condition that the person expected to receive.
And people begin to blame the other for this, without even thinking about the fact that perhaps the person simply does not know, does not know how, or does not want to make them happy, and treats relationships completely differently than they…